Modern Men Want Women as Finished Products But come to the table as broken tools. Let’s talk straight: Men say they want “submission,” “peace,” “support”... But what they really want is a woman who already thinks like them, obeys like a soldier, and requires zero effort to lead. They don’t want a wife. They want a pre-programmed helpmate—factory reset, no bugs, and zero personality conflicts. Let’s dismantle that nonsense. — 1. She’s Not Broken—She’s Just From a Different Factory You say she’s disrespectful. But that tone? That language? That attitude? It’s what her father accepted. What her mother modeled. What her culture normalized. No matter how well-trained she is—she’s trained for someone else’s system. You don’t get to demand she arrive “perfect.” You train. You shape. You guide. That’s what real husbands do. If she’s unteachable? Leave. But if she’s willing? Your job is to customize—not criticize. — 2. You’re Not a Lab Product—You’re a Walking Mess You want a Proverbs 31 woman. But you’re acting like a broken verse. You’re not calm—you’re reactive. Not stable—you’re distracted. Not healed—you’re hiding childhood trauma behind gym selfies and business quotes. You say women should “come correct.” But you? You’re a cocktail of lust, ego, and unearned expectations. She’s not dealing with a man. She’s surviving a man-child who thinks cash replaces character. — 3. There’s No Leadership Without Sacrifice You call yourself a leader? Then bleed like one. Because a husband is a shepherd, not a tyrant. A builder, not a beggar of obedience. A protector, not a dictator with ego. You can’t demand submission without first offering direction, safety, and stability. You want a wife? Die to self. Lead with honor. And love her into becoming. Or go join a monastery. — 4. Every Woman Is a Gold Digger—And So Are You You’re mad she wants security? You want beauty. You want peace. You want sex on demand. You want warmth, home-cooked meals, and loyalty. That’s a transaction too. The problem isn’t that she wants something. The problem is you think you shouldn't have to give. A real man gives—willingly. To the right woman? He pours. To the wrong woman? He walks. But don’t pretend relationships are built on pure vibes and no investments. That’s a broke man’s delusion. — 5. You Can’t Condemn Women While Living Like a Boy You’re in beef with 4 exes. You text your “sneaky link” after tweeting about “wife material.” You ghost women for fun—but scream when a woman says she wants a high-value man. You shame hypergamy while chasing curves. You criticize promiscuity—after running through half your city. All you're worth is in fake chains and hired cars. Sit down. Heal. Repent. Because accountability isn’t gendered. And if you’re not man enough to look in the mirror? You have no business pointing fingers. — Final Word: Don’t Demand a Finished Woman—If You’re Still an Unstarted Man You want: Peace without order. Respect without responsibility. Loyalty without leadership. A wife who’s trained, tamed, and tailored… But what are you? You don’t earn. Don’t learn. Don’t invest. Don’t grow. But expect her to submit? No, boy. She’s not the one who needs to be ready. You are. So before you call her “mid,” “masculine,” or “modern”... Ask yourself: Would a wise woman even follow the man you are right now? If the answer is no… You’re not ready for a wife. You’re only chasing shadows. Credit ELONAIRES | Magnus Media