So, about the gist of the day. Here's it comes...I have a very good friend of mine, whom I really love She's cute, humble, well behaved, and generous. And I love her, wholeheartedly So at the start of our vacation, she happened to be vibes by a certain rich guy, I was happy for her He's rich young all set, & he got the looks Guess he's 27, 28, 29 around there. So,in jan they were still in vibing process and on 8th is when they officially started dating My love(frnd) introduced the guy to the mom and all that shit, and the mom was cool with it😳🤷‍♀️ Ayt mind u these are really rich fellas So, she started going out with the guy to nights, oftentimes And the mom was cool with it🤷‍♀️ I mean really cool. She went ahead and started asking the mom for permission to go and stay at the guys place for a period of time, and the mom was cool with it!!!!😑 I was like, cool. They've been going for a lot to a lot of occasions together, and I've been ok with it I thought that maybe she's finally found her Adam after all this time and all the failed ships she's been in🤞🩷 So...Staying at the guy's for weeks, months, sometimes even when the mom is gone for some business trios, she stays there. Cut the long story shot My love hit me up yesterday, only to tell me the good news that she's preparing a kukyala function 😫🤭 Omg I was so happy, and excited, I started drawing a lot of imaginations in my head. I thought it was all for the better, then I asked her if she wasn't gonna end with school She said yeah, she will go. Poison!!! I was really excited. And after all the jazz and gist of the night She confessed to me that she was D 🤰 Poison I love my frnd 🤦‍♀️😫 I had to lie to her that I was all happy, excited and good with it But honestly speaking, I wasn't She left me devasted 🤦‍♀️😭 My friend is someone who doesn't want to be told anything that is of her dislike. There's no way I can communicate to her, if am not agreeing with her desires. So now, by August as we're gonna be reporting for year 1 sem 1, she's gonna be preparing for her function. I don't trust this guy She's just made 20 of recent, I feel like this ain't the right time... I feel like she's still so young for all this but who am I to say something when all her family members gave her a thumbs up. I don't want my loves future to end like this. The guy is educated, well established, literally having everything a person would wish to attain He's having multiple sources of income etc, He's done with school🥺 And look at my love😓🤦‍♀️ We haven't started yet. Deep within my heart, I want to tell her to calm down and go slow I want to tell her to abort and cancel the function I want to tell her to first get done with school, but am afraid that if I try to say a word that is not in line with her desires🤦‍♀️ She will cancel me out as a friend, she won't tell me her stuff anymore. And I'll lose her just like that. So, should I just watch on everything and keep calm and quiet Or!!!Am really distressed Cuz I love her.