- *Time to Change the Narrative...😐* Most of my college friends are *typical city boiss* — jinhone ne apni life *3/4 BHK* apartment with small nuclear families mein bitaayi h.... Mai ek *gaanv* se hun.. They often ask me...*“Village mein girls ki life bahut tough hoti hogi na?* _No freedom, bahut saari restrictions hoti hongi, violence bhi hota hoga... Dekho city girls kitni free hoti hain.”_ Honestly, I don’t get where this *narrative comes from*. _Shayad movies se ya social media ne yeh image create kiya hai._ But let me tell you something real... Mostly, City mein *Girls* life ek *3 BHK* ke andar hi limited hoti hai. No real sports, no ground-level interaction, just social media addiction — *_Insta, Snapchat, reels…_* Unke paas karne ko kuch nahi hota, aur asli duniya se connection bilkul kam ho gaya hai... They pretend to be *BTS fans &Taylor Swift fans...* not because they love Korean culture — but kyunki unhe kisi identity ka part banna hota hai, kisi group mein fit hona hota hai. _*It’s all about status, not substance*_ ..On the other hand, gaon ki ladkiyon ki life is *so much more diversified*... Woh sports mein actively participate karti hain — *_kho-kho, cycling, aur village ke chhote-2 functions ko organize karna unki zimmedari hoti hai...* management skills, leadership, sab kuch wahan se develop hota hai.... And let’s be honest — kisi bhi ghar ki khushi us ghar ki *Women (महिलाओं)* ke *_emotional aur management skills pe depend karti hai, not the boys._* *_& Village girls ki....Management Skills & Emotional Intelligence bhot accha hota h compared to City Girls..._* & it's a fact that makes them more ideal women But the sad part is, *gaanv bhi ab dheere-dheere shehar banne lage hain.* And hum wo asli, rooted life *_lose_* kar rahe hain. So it’s time to change the narrative... Sirf *chhote kapde* pehen lena freedom nahi hota... aur bhi bhot saare *_factors_* hote hein *NOTE* .. Although _Exceptions_ exist...I'm talking in _general_ ...🙏 Written by.. _*_Ayush Tiwari*_