From a brother 'Please is it okay to inform the first wife that you are about to get a second wife or inform her after the Nikah to the second wife Please which one is the best...' The best approach is to carry her along, prepare her mind and assure her of your fairness. However, the same method cannot work for everyone, depending on the behaviour of your wife. The situation will dictate if she needs to know before or after. I will suggest you see a counselor to seek more clarification on methods and approaches, may Allah make it easy for you as you join the league of amazing men in polygyny. Abu Sheikh > follow 🩷