This is not supposed to be a 28 year old woman's problem. But unfortunately, it is. This is how you know that you have a very wrong dating mentality. At this age, a woman is interested in his behaviour that shows that he wants to marry her. Not his behaviour that shows her to the world and satisfies her ego. At this age, she wants to spend time with him in his space, home, to endear herself to him as a wife. She is using such time to figure him out and judge him for a good husband and father. Social media post? This is why I tell so many girl, when they tell me about their *"Ideal man"* to first continue staying with their fathers and observe their mothers. These are girls who have grown up observing men more than fellow women and what they're doing to make their relationships reach the next stage. Whatever little she does, she wants the man to recognise it and announce to the whole world. Imagine a woman who thinks social media post is a sign of commitment that must be reciprocated.