Then later, someone comes along, does the right things, focuses on the right points and makes him realise he can actually get more. Then he'll realise indeed he can get more. Imagine having to make a man explain why he can't post you on his status. Of all the issues in his head. Make a man explain why he'd rather have you at his place than go out on dates. Then there's another woman who'd prefer to spend time with him at his place. She doesn't care whether he advertises her or not. She's happy with the little outings they have. All she wants is to give him a peace of mind and help him grow the best way she can. Why is this guy not leaving this social mediac for her. Then she'll say, after all I have done for him? Which was what? Sex and statue updates???? Reason why she doesn't find going to his place appealing, romantic and connecting is because she doesn't like the chores it comes with. I wish my brother listens to her complaint and reads well into it. Otherwise, he'll marry the woman, but not his wife.