Women are not brought up to lead a home or provide for it. Even though they will secretly wish they called the shots. Just to relieve themselves of certain responsibilities that come with being a woman. But, eventually, they'll naturally resent any man who puts them in position to lead and make too many decisions. Very few women choose men who give them signals that they (the woman) 'll be the leaders and call the shots. A woman will choose a man who makes her feel comfortable being led. Even though during the course of the relationship or marriage she'll desire to be on top of him. But she doesn't really want the role. If your woman was once sweet, and now has become toxic, you have taken a good woman, and turned her into a monster because you decided to relinquish your God given authority. Whether intentionally or not, if it has happened, understand that power has infested your woman. Hang in there, get off your ass, work hard, reclaim your place. All she needs is her leader back but she doesn't know it.