Every man has the ability to know when he's forcing a relationship. All those men who are rejected when they kneel down, knew it was coming. They're just narcissistically gullible. These are the men who use money to bridge any *"I'm not into you"* gap the woman shows. And our good women never disappoint, they'll eat the money. How women have eaten the *"money of stupidity "* of men. A woman can hide so many things, but she can never hide lack of commitment. It'll always show up in her submissiveness or lack. We get used to rejection so much that when a woman is rejecting us for real, we ignore and think she's just being a woman. When there's no commitment, you'll always know. If you end up committing to a wrong person, that's on you. She's a receiver of your masculinity and it's packages and most times she wants these packages, but not you as a being. She'll not outrightly reject, but will give you hints. It's your responsibility to notice these hints. Choosing a wife is not a matter of having money and being able to afford whatever she wants. It's choosing someone who is happy to be called your wife and submitting to you. This is not something every woman who's responding to you means. Narcissistic gullibility will not allow you see this however.