memories that both parties once shared.You don't know whether to end years of friendship or relationship or you should just forgive and life continues. I don't have much to say tbh.It is easy to say that you wanna forgive and it's hard to actually do it.It is more of a process.You go through stages of gaslighting yourself sometimes wanting to lie to yourself that one's behaviour will change or they will stop. You may feel that you're the one at fault yet you didn't have any partaking.But in everything,face it.Judge from a neutral POV.Put on the table your shortcomings and also the other parties shortcomings. It will bring you clarity and be able to know your stand in your matter.But take your time.Heal if need be and learn yourself.