*Staring at women is considered defect in men's masculinity.* Hafidh Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani mentioned that Hanafi scholars considers following actions that are seen as defects in a men's masculinity. وألحق بعض الحنفية بأهل المعاصي من يتعاطى خوارم المروءة ككثرة المزاح واللهو وفحش القول والجلوس في الأسواق لرؤية من يمر من النساء ونحو ذلك - Excessive joking - Frivolity (lack of seriousness and responsibility, carelessness ) - Foul language - Sitting in markets to gaze at passing women and other similar actions" [فتح الباري - ٤٠/١١] Unfortunately, many young people today engage in above mentioned behaviors.