My husband is a kind and loving man. Since we got married, I’ve never really had issues with him. He helps around the house without complaints—washes clothes, tidies up, even goes to the market when I’m too tired to. Cooking is my department since he can’t cook, but he makes up for it by always doing the dishes. A perfect gentleman. The only problem…the one thing that’s making me question everything…is his obsession with shaving me. It started when we were dating. I found it cute at first, romantic even. The idea that my man wanted to shave my puzzy himself felt intimate, special. And the way he got hard while doing it? It was flattering, thrilling. It always led to sex, and honestly, I didn’t mind. I enjoyed the attention. But now, two years into marriage, it’s no longer flattering. It’s suffocating. He must be the one to shave me. If I do it myself, it’s war. Silent treatment. He won’t speak to me until the hair grows back. I’ll have to beg, plead, and endure his nasty attitude before he forgives me. The worst part is he gets so aroused while shaving me that he always loses control. His hands shake, and he cuts me a little. You know how painful cuts down there are… it hurts for days. And immediately after, he wants segz. I’ve had to shave myself twice now and because of that, we haven’t spoken in a month. A whole month. And because of that he even threatened to find another woman who’ll let him if I keep shaving my own puzzy. I complained to my mother, hoping for support, but instead, she scolded me. She said I’m f00lish for denying my husband his right and said I should be grateful that after giving him two children, he still finds me attractive enough to want to shave me. So I’m thinking of reporting to his mom or is that taking it too far? Is this normal? Is this a normal behavior that all men do or is my case different? Am I the one overreacting? The End Ajebo Writer ©️Kingdavid Chinaeke Ofunne