There is a big difference between religiousity and compatibility, individuals must try to take them into consideration before tying the knot. If you go for the appearance, you might be disappointed, but when you go extra mile to evaluate the character of a brother or sister, it gives you the opportunity to make a solid determination. Our spiritual life should have a place in our marriages, but it seems that is not the case. The level at which our ma sha Allah brothers and sisters are abandoning their marital roles is so disturbing, then we have the knowledge, but implementation is a big deal. Mr husband is a good man outside the door, he has an appearance that makes anyone to call him, 'alfa', when he preaches and recites the holy book, you will have no choice than to conclude that you have seen a saint, but he is a tyrant to his wife and children. Mrs wife has the charisma of leading other women in public, she tells other sisters about wearing hijab, khimar and niqab, infact, she will admonish the innocent sisters to respect their husbands, but she herself is rude, stubborn, disrespectful and cruel to her husband. To this end, intending partners should beyond the appearance of the brother or sister in relationship, they need to find out the true identity of these persons before saying yes to the proposal. Always pay attention to details.