Hello Essie Hope ur fyn So here is the issue I have a guy who is 31yrs n i'm 24yrs This guy has a 2yr old child from his previous relationship, the child's mum went abroad (kukuba cheyo😊) after getting some misunderstanding with this man. But he participated in helping her go abroad. So wen he met me, he told me everything about himself, by then i was just from a heartbreak and he came in just like a prince saving a princess. Things moved on well, he even opened up for me a business, and let me run it ...he doesn't ask for any money from it...he says its mine. I was ready to settle with this guy coz i really love his child and she also loves me Infact she thinks im her real mum I only stay with her during holidays and other days she stays with the granny. But the worst part of it is dat i discovered this guy is involved in multiple relationships. He has bu galz everywhere and he keeps sleeping with them. We don't stay together, so he just comes around. So wen i confronted him, he denied everything and keeps denying...but his people tell me. I told him lets end the relationship and just be business partners, he refused. I decided to let things be, move on with my life and take him as just my boss, and prepare myself for my last relationship which must lead to marriage. Its been peaceful for now 6 months, no relationship, no stress just work and making money. So now this man comes, telling me he's ready to settle and wants me to be the mother of his children, dat his daughter knows i'm her mum and i have been a good mum to her, He's ready to go to my parents etc...btw this is a son to a Bishop, and iam born again But my issue is, i had gotten over him, (coz i prayed for God to change his ways till i gave up🙌) He hasn't cut contact with his bu galz/women..i know he still talks to them coz he even employed them in his businesses and the bu galz all hate me, He had been a wealthy man but now most of his businesses collapsed, which i believe is due to the many relationships and sleeping with galz, of which u never know wat tgey carry Some carry curses and when u sleep with them u share in their curse. Now wat am i supposed to do??🤷‍♀️😞 I imagine marriage with a cheating husband, tho caring naye HIV is real😂