Hey Essie, About the lady who is finding it hard to leave her 3-year-old man. This is not only to her but to other ladies and men too. Sometimes (could be how we grew up) we tend to get comfortable in toxic environments and only lean on hope that it will change and when we find peace it's not normal so find it hard to stay in peaceful places or environments. So this lady only stuck there because that guy has conditioned her mind that that is how love looks, and now when she is receiving care and attention, it doesn't feel normal and this is what is happening to Ani and 2face.( If she is to ask herself what she does not like about the caring guy, then I think she will get her answer) The first sign to know you're in toxic space is to question your worth. The longer you stay in a toxic relationship or friendship or job your mind will operate like that and you'll find it hard to thrive in peaceful places. You won't know how beautiful love actually is . Give it a thought.