Admin please post anonymously. I’m a marr¡ed woman working at a l0dge in Hwange. My husband lives in Harare. We have a beautiful child who stays with me and the maid. After a small fight with my husband, I made a terr¡ble mistake — I ch£ated with a married workmate. My husband found out through someone I once called a friend — the same woman I had introduced him to. He didn’t raise his voice. He didn’t insult me. He just looked at me with the kind of pain I will never forget… then packed his things and left the house we stayed in at my workplace. Since that day, he completely cut me off. He was a good man. Paid full lobola. Loved me. Took care of his child. Now that child keeps asking when daddy is coming, and I have no answers. I feel like God is punishing me. Nothing is going well at work anymore. Things are falling apart. Doors that were once open are closing. I pray and get no peace. I smile during the day, but I cry myself to sleep every night. Ladies, please… don’t let attention or emotions make