"What if he cheats?" “What if he dies?” “What if you end up broke and alone?" Fear. Fear. Fear. Marriage is dangerous. Motherhood is a trap. Depending on a man is foolish. But here's the truth: Allah is the Provider, and your provision has nothing to do with anyone’s presence or absence. Here’s another truth: you could spend decades giving your best years to a company and building your savings, only to be tested by losing it all, and die alone with no one there to hold your hand. It happens. But somehow only becoming a wife, depending on your husband and raising a family is seen as the risky choice? That’s not empowerment. That’s indoctrination. It’s meant to keep women suspicious of men and disconnected from their feminine nature. Sister, stop letting fake fears rob you of real joy.