Take Your Time Marriage is Not a Race Marriage is one of the most significant decisions a person will make in their lifetime. It is not something to be rushed into, nor should it be treated as a response to social pressure or comparison. Just because your friend is getting married doesn’t mean you must do the same. Every heart has its own journey, and every soul its own timing. Love, trust, understanding, and compatibility these are not things that blossom overnight. They require time to grow, to be tested, and to be nurtured. Marriage is not simply about finding someone to walk with today, but someone you can walk with for a lifetime. It’s not about the celebration, the photos, or the titles it’s about building a life, side by side, in joy and in struggle. Take it step by step. Know the person. Understand their values, their temperament, and their vision for life. Make sure your hearts speak the same language before you commit to the journey. Marriage is not a race. It’s not something to rush into just because everyone else seems to be doing it. It's not about "settling down" it's about building up a foundation strong enough to weather life's storms. So take your time. Don’t let pressure, comparison, or fleeting emotions push you into something as lasting as marriage. Wait for the one who truly aligns with your heart and your values not just someone who looks right for the moment. In marriage, it’s not about being first it’s about being right. The right person, at the right time, for the right reasons. When you build on that, you’re not just choosing a partner you’re choosing peace, growth, and a future worth building. ✍🏼 Ibn Kanz Abu Taymiyyah Ọkọ Eleha