Honor the Hands That Once Held You In life, relationships may shift. People who once walked closely with us may take different paths, and seasons may change. But even when disagreements arise or distance grows, never forget the kindness that was once shared. Do not let pride or conflict blind you from remembering the days someone stood by your side when no one else did. Sometimes, we grow apart from those who were once our greatest support. It is natural. Change is part of life. But betrayal or disrespect toward those who helped you rise is never justifiable. If someone once held your hand through storms, encouraged you in your darkest hour, or believed in you when you had nothing, that memory alone deserves your respect. Let not temporary misunderstandings make you forget years of loyalty. The person may no longer serve a purpose in your life, and that is okay. But dignity and maturity are shown when you can walk away with peace, not bitterness. When you can disagree and still honor the good that once existed between you. Life is too short to repay kindness with cruelty. It takes character to appreciate the past, even when the present is filled with differences. Sometimes, the people who helped you before are no longer meant to be part of your journey, but that doesn't erase their role in getting you to where you are today. If someone helped you build your life, offered you shelter, fed you, or lifted you up when you were down, always hold that memory with reverence. Whether you speak again or not, let your heart remain grateful. It is not weakness to remember the good. It is strength. As the Bible teaches in Proverbs 17:17, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” Cherish those who stood with you in adversity. Even if the bond fades, let the gratitude remain. © Kevin moh cf lm | Catholic Apologist 2025. All rights reserved.