1. Never tell your boyfriend, or husband your actual body count if you are no longer a virgin 2. Never tell him the intricate details of your sexual experience with any man before he came into the picture. 3. Never give details during relationship that points to a past you did not tell him. Above lady👆 is the victim of this mistake. 4. Never show him any man you have ever slept with. If he meets you a non virgin, he already knows you are not innocent, but to accept to date you, he's convinced himself that you are not that damaged. Even if you are not so damaged, such images damage his perception of you and *makes his think he has been delusional.* You'll never rapir the damage it'll do to your innocent image he's created. Not all secrets must be revealed. They were your choices, LIVE WITH THEM! DIE WITH THEM! Even God will not judge you!