To decide whether you should enter into a relationship with a man who approaches you, should not take long. You have the ability to perceive things. If you like the energy he's giving and you are single, give it a go. Not every relationship that starts must have sex and serious commitments involved. Keep such transactions for later. Later will obviously come when you are surer and knowing. But you can enter a relationship today and get out tomorrow as long as you find that the details of this person do not contain the things you want to be part of. The disadvantage of refusing to give in for the dating to start soonest, when you are especially unsure why you are refusing is that, the moment you accept to start the relationship later, the expectation on you to then prove yourself is higher. This is where most girls are used If you are single, and a man approaches you, let the conversation happen, and let the man feel free to express himself. Very quickly you can make up your mind whether it is something worth pursuing or not. But a lady is single, a man approaches her, yet she behaves as if she does not want, or as if she is helping the man by giving him her attention. She gives herself a false sense of importance. What this leads to is, the man is not able to really be himself, she is already not being herself, therefore conversations and transactions are not real and legitimate. And yet she will still under score the man, when she already created a very unfriendly environment for the man. Ultimately, leading to loss of a potentially good thing. We have been programmed to think starting a relationship should be difficult. But No.