*The True Measure of Worth* The choice facing us each day? Becoming either a positive or negative force in others' lives. Simple. I remind myself constantly about "metrics that matter" to me, the unfashionable life performance indicators that form the DNA of good conduct and build genuine self-esteem. Tim Lebon suggests tracking things like smiles given, thanks received, and courtesies extended. To this list, I add these nearly invisible acts of kindness: the number of unexpected supportive texts/notes sent, the frequency of speaking highly of people when they're not present, the count of paths quietly cleared for others. When you make regular deposits into this store of micro-kindness, you actually get that thing everyone wants but seems to not really have—inner peace. We dey here.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ 🙌🏾