Feelings! Feeling is the act of emotional sensitivity, it is lustful and sometimes selfish. This is one of the reasons it is never stable but comes and go. Emotional feeling is good for personality but it is too weak to give a positive result when it comes to relationships or marriage. A relationship controls or builds on feelings will experience more eye services and hypocrisy. It is called love is always conditional. That is love attached to something. Many people hardly differentiate true love from emotional feelings. They are ignorant of the forces controlling them if it is true love or emotional feelings. Even a person with a positive mission when under the influence of feelings alone will certainly break the heart of his/her partner one day. This is simply because the feelings always come and go. The emotional feelings of many ladies these days which they called love is attached to money and material things while that of the men is attached to sex. This is while there are more results of hopeless relationships and unsuccessful marriages. I am 100% certain that some of the people reading this write-up have experienced or are victims of what I am saying. Beauty, money, sexual activeness, family background, status, nature of the job, etc can activate emotional feelings but not true love. True love can only be built on godliness while emotional feelings are fleshy and are built on worldliness. It is the act of satisfying the flesh. In a relationship, a person that threatened to break up with you because you denied sex or were unable to meet up a financial need is certainly under the force of lustful emotional feelings and not love. Or After unmeasurable sexual pleasures or financial and material things were given away, you were still dumped for another person, which indicates the person has exhausted his/her feelings for you. When making relationship decisions such as proposing or accepting a proposal make sure you are not just influenced by emotional feelings but love. True Love suffers long and is kind; True love does not envy; True love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; True love does not behave rudely; True love does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; True love does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; True love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. True Love never fails. A relationship or marriage built on feelings or lust is like a house built on the sandy ground. It will surely collapse sooner or later.