Lady of 20, I strongly advise not to accept or eat a man's money if you won't love them and especially if they have specifically declared their intentions...Now wat really do you expect of the future of a relationship with a 34 year old? They hate playing around, so why wd u expect more money if u have disappointed them. Kindly apologize to Him for wasting his time and move on , for your own peace and security. However if u want to pursue a relationship with him ,then mention your conditions ,the HIV test and BLA BLA ....and if he agrees then congratulations.