Hello Admin, hope you are well. Thank you for the good work done . To the lady who had lobster for the first time, you did absolutely nothing wrong in rejecting the kiss. Hold strong to your values. From the way you explained the story it seems it was a first date. This gentleman should have taken things slow with zero expectations. He failed to read the room. There is nothing wrong with being as extravagant as he was, but he should have no expectations, otherwise keep it simple. If you gave in to the kiss it communicates something in itself, next date would be even more extravagant and this time he would expect you to spend the night. You have done your part in reaching out, if he doesn't respond let it be. You are now just coming off desperate. Let it be. He will either get back to you or not. If he doesn't you can move on.