Hello admin, hide my ID. 'I'm 24 years old dating a 34 year old man. I've been dating this guy for 4years now. Hapends that in this 4, years, I've mistaken gotten pregnant & have had 6 abortion for him cuz he keeps begging that he isn't ready yet & he's still trying to hussle, Though its something I don't understand cuz he has he's own place a comfortable apartment He says he'll marry me but it's just too much with the abortion He hasn't paid anything on my head but he claims he loves me very much. pls advice me on this one cuz I do really love the guy & i want that he should marry me. The last abortion almost klld me But, the thing that has really been assuring me to know that he's actually serious with me which makes me relax is cuz 6 months, after we started our relationship 3 years ago, he immediately introduced me to his family, which is what makes me understand that he's being serious with me & makes me trust him But he keeps saying he's not ready to settle down now nor have a child. . lately I've been thinking if to get pregnant for him & hide it till it gets to 6 months where, they'll be no way for him to ask me to tærminet so that it can force him to come & see my parents. pls help, cuz i just need something which i can use to pressure him to come & marry me, he's always trying to avoid the topic of meeting my parents as he changes topic anytime i mention to him to at least meet my parents to make his intentions about me known. pls help ! '