Hello Admin, to the sister who is fearing men of God . The devil played both of you. So he won. Firstly I need you to have hope for a better future still, just like Job 14;7 says Secondly know that your loyalty should be to God and Him alone ... do the right thing , ask for the grace of God to forgive this man for abandoning you. Then repent too for the sin of fornication. Allow the Holy spirit to heal you . Life is spiritual, don't cling on the man , know ur enemy the devil who is acting behind this man making you be the failure , direct the battle to Him after cleaning ur heart in repentance. She actually needs deliverance before she can ever get married . I don't know if it's applicable but she can contact me on 0751907155 ..for further guidance