Admin, where is Essie? Anyways I have a problem munange 🙂 I made a tough decision 7 months ago to leave my boyfriend because he couldn’t really afford to take care of me the way I wanted. To be fair, he was trying, but things just weren’t enough. I thought maybe if I moved on, I’d find someone better off financially who could meet my needs. Unfortunately, that hasn’t been the case. The guys I’ve met since then keep saying “there’s no money” and that things are hard because of the economy. It’s been 7 months now, and no serious, financially stable guy has come my way. Now I’m confused. My ex may not have had much, but he had good intentions and was making efforts. I’m beginning to think maybe I should go back to him. But another part of me is saying I should wait a little longer for someone more financially stable. Please, I need your honest advice — should I go back to my ex who was trying, or keep waiting for someone who is more financially secure?