It’s not easy to be a woman in this world. But it’s not easy to be a man either. It’s not easy for anyone tbh. Because this world is a test and hardship is a part of it. One thing I tell myself when I catch myself admiring someone’s life is that, Allah is The Most Just, you maybe seeing their success and happiness, but they have their own share of trials and worries. They have it, maybe more than you, maybe things you could never survive through because that’s not the capacity Allah created you with. You’re given whatever is written for you regardless of what they get, Allah is the Most Rich and He doesn’t need to lessen one’s blessings to give another more. So be grateful and have tawakkul and patience. “With hardship comes ease” and “Allah does not burden a soul beyond which it can bear”. If you learn the essence of Tawheed, Tawakkul becomes easy. He gives you no trial which He thinks you don’t have the strength for. And whatever you suffer, your sins are expiated and the hardships here raise your status in the Akhirah. How beautiful is the way this Deen works, سبحان الله ! So do good and have sabr and seek help with prayer, even when you don’t see the effects of it. Remember the story of Musa عليه السلام and Khidr, the people never knew why things happened the way it did, only Khidr and Musa عليه السلام knew the Wisdom of it. And we won’t either maybe, in this Dunya. Learn about your Rabb, then you’ll know why nothing happens without a reason. Knowing Allah makes it easier to trust Him. May Allah ease for us our trials and compensate us with the best in the Akhirah, امين -عــ