
Reminders Benefits Believer's
June 20, 2025 at 06:22 AM
If Allah allowed it, then it is perfectly wise, just, and pure — even if your emotions or modern mindset cannot process it yet.
Let’s talk real examples:
🧕🏽 1. Aisha (RA)’s Marriage to the Prophet ﷺ
Modern minds question it:
“She was so young! It sounds wrong!”
But here’s the reality:
➡️ It was done with full honour, parental approval, deep wisdom, and emotional safety.
➡️ Aisha (RA) herself cherished it — she became a scholar, a teacher, and proud wife of the Prophet ﷺ.
➡️ *Allah allowed it.*☝🏼 It was part of the Prophet's ﷺ life, and thus — it is not wrong.
🧠 *If it sounds wrong to you, then the problem is in your lens, not Islam.*
🏹2. *The Concept of Concubines and polygamy in Islamic History*
This makes many feel uneasy today.
But pause.
➡️ Islam didn’t create slavery — it came to regulate, protect, and slowly abolish it with dignity.
➡️ The system of concubines and polygamy was a regulated mercy in a time of war and captivity, with full rights to women, and elevation through marriage.
🎯 If you’re reacting emotionally — not intellectually or spiritually — you’re judging a system designed by the All-Wise.
✍️ 3. *Any Ayah or Hadith That You Feel “Uncomfortable” With*
Do you feel uneasy when you hear:
“Men are protectors over women”?
“Women should wear khimar and jilbab”?
“Obey your husband”?
“Cut off the hand of the thief”?
“Fight in the cause of Allah”?
Ask yourself:
Who taught you to doubt Allah’s commands?
Instagram? Netflix? Comment sections? “Progressive” Muslims?
⚠️ That’s not learning. That’s slow indoctrination