The WhatsApp/Facebook status wars between husband and wife is a nasty common phenomena, each copying and pasting from the Quran and Sunnah whatever suites their argument. Very sad. Didn’t both of you realise that the solution to your problems is in the same Quran and Sunnah you are using against each other. Therefore, you either fear Allah, intend to reconcile, if there’s room to do so, and solve your problems with the help of a Sheikh/Marriage counselor or divorce peacefully. Note, this may not be that simple for everyone, as some cases are extremely sensitive, in that case, the first priority is to find safety for yourself, then seek advise on what to do next.