There is a misconception that marriage will fix a man’s struggles, but the reality is starkly different. Men could be told to get a wife, provide and all will be well. But marriage is not a magic solution for stress, depression or unhealed trauma. Ignoring mental health under the weight of expectations to always be strong, to provide no matter what, can lead to broken relationships, substance abuse or even violence. The pressure to man up and suppress emotions does not make struggles disappear; it magnifies them. Instead of assuming marriage or success will heal pain, we need to prioritize safe spaces for men to speak openly, seek help and address mental health without shame. #ndinewe #menfeel