
Abiola Ogbu
June 15, 2025 at 11:19 AM
*THE FATHER’S PRESENCE*
Being present in our children's lives is one of the greatest gifts we can give them. Fathers play a unique role in shaping their kids' lives, and their presence can have a lasting impact.
Why Father’s Presence?
• *Builds trust and confidence*: When fathers are present, children feel seen, heard, and valued.
• *Fosters emotional intelligence*: Dads can help kids develop emotional intelligence by being attuned to their feelings and needs.
• *Creates lasting memories*: Shared experiences and moments with dad become cherished memories that last a lifetime.
*Being Present Doesn’t Have To Be Perfect!*
• *Show up*: Be there for milestones, school events, and everyday moments.
• *Listen actively*: Give your child your full attention, and show interest in their life.
• *Be involved*: Participate in activities, hobbies, and interests that bring you and your child joy.
* Don't be an absentee Father.
* Create time to be in your child's life.
* Be their role model.
* Don't just provide the money for their upkeep, create time to be with them.
* Bond with your children when they are still very young to avoid you being lonely at old age.
* Your presence has a positive impact on their Social, psychological and Emotional development.
Don't just be a Father, be a Daddy.
Happy Father's Day!!
Abiola Ogbu
*Marriage and Family Therapist*
