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2/10/2025, 2:44:58 PM

#WeeklyWord – When Everything Piles Up Lately, I’ve been trying to show up for myself the way I do for others. It’s something I know I struggle with—I prioritise other people’s feelings, wants, and needs over my own, especially when I care. So, I took a leap. I spent a lot of money to attend a summit, thinking it would be a great networking opportunity and a way to figure out how I want to move forward in the nightlife industry. I left feeling great, inspired—like I was finally stepping in the right direction. Then I came back to London. The reality hit hard. My new place wasn’t ready. My things had been moved without my say-so. My bedding was gone, meaning I couldn’t even stay there. I had communicated my needs clearly, yet somehow, I was still unheard. That same day, I had a falling out with someone I trusted. Everything seemed to pile on at once, like life was determined to remind me that no matter how much effort I put in, I’d still be left disappointed. And if I’m honest? I haven’t been okay. I’ve realised that part of the reason certain situations remain so triggering is because I don’t know how to deal with them when they happen. They pile up, unresolved, and after a while, it’s just too much. And then I stop feeling able to share my emotions because, more often than not, when I do, they’re dismissed or shut down. Right now, I don’t feel safe. Not physically, but emotionally. I feel isolated. I feel unheard. I feel so overwhelmingly sad and frustrated that I just want to disappear. I’m battling with the urge to drink just to numb the pain, because at this point, I don’t know what else to do with it. It’s exhausting trying to be strong when it feels like no matter how much I communicate, I’m still misunderstood. A few days ago, I had a panic attack. I reached out. No one answered. Eventually, someone called back, but by then, I was already drowning. The advice I got? The same as always—how do you handle it? What do you do? But what do I do when the real issue isn’t just handling the moment, but the fact that *I’m constantly in these moments?* That no matter how much I try, I keep ending up here? I don’t even know why I’m sharing this. Maybe I just needed to say it out loud. Maybe I don’t care if anyone reads it. Maybe I do. Either way, this is where I’m at. — Koleish

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2/10/2025, 3:13:11 PM

🔗 Event Recommendation: Galentine’s Kink Night Not into Valentine’s? Same. Last year, I went to a Galentine’s Kink event and really enjoyed it! It’s a safe space for open discussion and exploration, though more suited for those new to kink or building confidence. Many women still struggle with fully enjoying sex due to societal norms. This event helps shift that, and while I wanted something less introductory, it was still a great experience—plus, the free Bondara sex toy (£40 value!) made it worth it. Early bird tickets are gone, and it sold out last time—so grab yours while you can! You might even spot me in the promo video. How to Live Your Best Heaux Life: Bad Gyalentines Date: 16 feb • 18:00 Location: 437 Hackney Road, London, E2 8PP https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/how-to-live-your-best-heaux-life-bad-gyalentines-tickets-1227155287499?aff=ebdsshother&utm_share_source=listing_android #events #kink #galentines *Past event*

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2/1/2025, 9:40:18 AM

London: One Night in al-Aqsa: Exclusive Movie Showing! FREE *TONIGHT* Date: 1 feb • 18:30 Location: Whitechapel Campus, London, E1 2AT https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/london-one-night-in-al-aqsa-exclusive-movie-showing-free-tickets-1144862006079?aff=ebdsshother&utm_share_source=listing_android #FREE #SCREENING *Past event*

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2/4/2025, 9:46:59 AM

*🔥 KOKOPOPSWEET APPROVED 🔥* Hey, sweet ones! Got a thirst for something different? Let me put you onto *Lit Laboratory* —the UK’s first and only Science and Sip experience! 👨🏿‍🔬🍸 Founded by the brilliant Abi, this _Time Out_ and _Secret London-featured_ pop-up turns grown-ups into scientists for the night—think hands-on experiments, cocktail-making, and a sprinkle of friendly competition. 🧪🥃💥 The next event is happening *Sunday 30th March* , and trust me, you don’t want to miss out! 📲 Follow *@LitLabLondon* on socials and help spread the word—like, share, repost! Let’s get lit... scientifically. 🔥👩🏾‍🔬 _https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/o/lit-lab-london-uks-first-science-and-sip-event-66085280293?aff=ebeseadeeplink_ *#KokoPopSweetApproved #ScienceAndSip #event* P.s. I heard if you subscribe to the website you get £5 voucher off your first ticket purchase 🤫

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2/2/2025, 12:22:53 PM

*🔥 KOKOPOPSWEET APPROVED 🔥* Hey, sweet ones! Got a thirst for something different? Let me put you onto *Lit Laboratory* —the UK’s first and only Science and Sip experience! 👨🏿‍🔬🍸 Founded by the brilliant Abi, this _Time Out_ and _Secret London-featured_ pop-up turns grown-ups into scientists for the night—think hands-on experiments, cocktail-making, and a sprinkle of friendly competition. 🧪🥃💥 The next event is happening *Sunday 16th February* , and trust me, you don’t want to miss out! 📲 Follow *@LitLabLondon* on socials and help spread the word—like, share, repost! Let’s get lit... scientifically. 🔥👩🏾‍🔬 _https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/o/lit-lab-london-uks-first-science-and-sip-event-66085280293?aff=ebeseadeeplink_ *#KokoPopSweetApproved #ScienceAndSip #event*

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2/1/2025, 9:35:13 AM

Free Caribbean food tasting Date: 1 feb • 16:00 Free food Carribbean food as supported by crisis... *Weekly free food* event in Fulham check the link for more details https://www.eventbrite.com/e/free-caribbean-food-tasting-tickets-1135898154959?aff=ebdsshother&utm_share_source=listing_android #freefood #community #recurring

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1/24/2025, 8:40:51 PM

Lush Spa Oxford Street │ Valentine's Day Bath Bomb Workshop Date: Sat, Feb 15 • 13:00 GMT https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/lush-spa-oxford-street-valentines-day-bath-bomb-workshop-tickets-1207693175799?aff=ebdsshother&utm_share_source=creator-collection_android #workshop #valentines *Past event*

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1/24/2025, 11:07:03 AM

https://www.undrw10.com/shop/donch-till-dawn-birthday-special *Past event* #party

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1/31/2025, 5:56:55 PM

~If your free live set Thursday 6th February at DJ mag HQ in central London. If your in the music industry it's a great way to network and if you love live music it's just a random side quest on a Thursday. You can also help yourself to free drinks alcoholic/non-alcoholic and free past editions of the magazine. Apply for free tickets below~ https://djtickets.com/event/dj-mag-hq-funk-tribu-odymel?mc_cid=eeeab0a550&mc_eid=cd79b533c8 #music #thirstythursdays #djmag #industry *Past event*

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2/3/2025, 9:12:45 AM

#weeklyword *Aloha*🌺 folks, Waking up this morning, I’ve been battling rejection, disappointment, and the struggle to finish things—especially for myself. I set intentions to journal, exercise, and video diary daily. It started strong, but now I find myself avoiding it, not wanting to sit with my feelings. A part of me whispers that none of it matters anyway. Writing this while fighting off a panic attack, I remind myself of the small wins—I cycled over 15km this weekend, the longest I can remember cycling anywhere. That counts. Moving home is overwhelming at the best of times, but doing most of it alone has been extra tough. I know people have their own lives, and I’m grateful for those I do have, but the weight of organising everything solo has left me anxious and exhausted. Feeling left out, overlooked, and unsure how to navigate it without therapy’s guidance—it’s a lot. I pour out my feelings often, but I rarely get that energy back, which makes me retreat. If I don’t reach out, will anyone? That lingering fear of not being chosen is one of my biggest triggers, making even asking for help feel like an uphill battle. Despite it all, I’m pushing forward. I’ve got tickets for the _Nighttime Entertainment Summit (https://nighttimeeconomysummit.com/)_ this week, and I will go—because I need to find my way into this industry without it costing me my peace. I also worked through half of _the Year Compass Workbook (https://yearcompass.com/)_ while trying to moodboard. Reflecting on the past eight months has been intense, which might explain why I’ve been feeling so overwhelmed. If you’re feeling a bit lost or stuck, *I highly recommend doing it—it’s a great way to process the past year and set intentions for what’s next.* I want to move beyond feelings of abandonment and uncertainty. I want to feel secure in my move and confident in my decisions. And I hope that you—whoever you are reading this—feel supported in your own ventures. But if you don’t, I hope you find the strength to move forward without too much anxiety. If you’re feeling generous, please consider donating to _Black Minds Matter (https://www.blackmindsmatteruk.com/) ._ I give when I can and have even used the service myself. While I was sad when it ended, I was grateful for the support when I needed it most. Also, if you’re looking for a way to get around, grab a £4 ride credit with Lime using this link: _https://lime.bike/referral_signin/R3WDSN4IHJF_ And for the vibes, listen to this mix: Chapter #113 by SASHA MARIE RADIO on SoundCloud. _https://on.soundcloud.com/e4hXgGLzaggdMMHz6_ Let’s get through the week together. 🙏🏾💚🖖🏾