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6/16/2025, 6:46:51 AM

THIS WEEK THEM: *LOVE AND ARROGANCE*

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6/16/2025, 4:52:28 AM

*Rumors can make you dislike innocent people. So, take your time to understand better, before you make a wrong decision from false information .* ~AnkundaOmunyankore Quotes

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6/16/2025, 9:36:46 AM

TWENTY 20 LIES WOMEN OFTEN TELL TO DECEIVE MEN Let’s talk honestly. Relationships are not just about love, laughter, and connection. They are also spaces where power gets negotiated—often silently. Sometimes it’s mutual. Other times, it’s lopsided. Many men today find themselves confused, doubting their instincts, and feeling emotionally off-balance without knowing why. Here’s the truth: emotional manipulation rarely looks aggressive. It often feels like affection, concern, or vulnerability. Machiavelli once wrote, “Men are destroyed when they stop trusting their own judgment.” And that’s exactly how many men lose their footing today—not from one explosive betrayal, but through a series of small, subtle lies that chip away at clarity, confidence, and control. This essay isn’t about blaming women. It’s about recognizing patterns. Some of these behaviors are learned, unconscious, or even culturally reinforced. But when they go unexamined, they turn relationships into quiet power struggles. If you notice these dynamics, it’s not about blaming others—it’s about strengthening yourself. 1. “You're overthinking it.” A dismissal wrapped in concern. This trains you to doubt your gut and accept her version of reality. That’s where control begins. 2. “All my exes were toxic.” If every past relationship was awful, you need to question why. One or two? Maybe. All of them? That’s a red flag. 3. “I’ve never felt this way before.” Early emotional intensity can feel magical—but it can also blind you. Love bombing builds false intimacy quickly and strategically. 4. “Why ruin this with labels?” She wants loyalty and attention without commitment. That’s not a connection—it’s a control dynamic. 5. “You’re too good for me.” This sounds like vulnerability, but it often makes you work harder to prove yourself. She appears weak while gaining power. 6. “I need time to figure things out.” Taking time is valid—stalling indefinitely while enjoying the benefits of your presence is not. 7. “I don’t want to ruin our friendship.” This translates to: “I want your time, energy, and attention—but not responsibility.” 8. “I didn’t mean it like that.” Intent matters—but so does impact. This phrase often avoids accountability and flips the guilt onto you. 9. “You’re insecure.” Questioning behavior or setting boundaries doesn’t make you insecure. This phrase is often used to shame you into silence. 10. “You should trust me.” Trust must be earned. When it’s demanded without proof, it’s not about love—it’s about control. 11. “I’ve never done this before.” Pretending innocence is a tool. It lowers your guard so behaviors get excused without reflection. 12. “I just want communication.” Some don’t want connection—they want ammunition. Guard your inner world until trust is established. 13. “I was just busy.” Everyone gets busy. But repeated dodging, ghosting, or avoiding with this excuse isn’t accidental—it’s strategic. 14. “I would never do that to you.” Unprompted reassurances often reveal hidden intentions. If you didn’t ask, why is she defending? 15. “My phone died.” Phones die—but when this excuse repeats, it's not about technology. It's about testing how much you'll tolerate. 16. “You’re so much better than my ex.” This comparison flatters but manipulates. It pressures you to live up to an image, not be yourself. 17. “My last relationship really hurt me.” Empathy is important—but don’t carry pain that isn’t yours. Her healing is her responsibility. 18. “I don’t care about money.” Watch for shifts. If financial expectations grow later, the early statement was image-building, not truth. 19. “I’m fine.” Passive-aggressive silence creates emotional uncertainty. It makes you chase resolution while she stays in control. 20. “I’m not like other girls.” Words are easy. Uniqueness isn’t claimed—it’s demonstrated over time. Let’s be clear: not every woman who says these things is being manipulative. Sometimes these words come from fear, conditioning, or confusion. But repeated patterns? They deserve your attention. Machiavelli didn’t teach us to be cold—he taught us to be aware. “The man who sees the world as it is, not as he wishes it to be, is the only one who can master it.” If you want to be respected, start by respecting your own standards. Don’t excuse red flags. Don’t explain away inconsistency. Hold your line. Speak your truth. Observe patterns. Real power isn’t about being unfeeling—it’s about being unshakeable. The man who knows what he values and lives by it becomes untouchable. Respect is earned. Love must be mutual. And your peace? Non-negotiable. ‎👋AnkundaOmunyankore counsellor love square

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6/16/2025, 6:59:10 AM

Since it is fathers Week, we shall put much emphasis on men's talk. `Overview` Men's talk can encompass a wide range of topics, including 1. personal growth, 2. relationships, 2. careers, and 3. mental health MEN YOUR ADVISED TO STAY TUNED.

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6/16/2025, 9:38:35 AM

"The one who truly wants you never finds communication difficult." When someone holds genuine love and care for you in their heart, they will always find a way to reach out—no matter the circumstances, no matter how busy life gets. Talking to you isn’t a task for them; it’s a comfort, a need of the heart. They don’t let silence grow between you, because their heart naturally gravitates back to you. True connection doesn’t fade into distance or disappear into excuses—it speaks, even in silence, and finds its way through even the smallest gestures. When someone truly cares, their presence is felt, always. > AnkundaOmunyankore counsellor love

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6/16/2025, 8:42:37 AM

*A person's problems are only in his head* _Believe me, everything that happens to you first of all happens in your head. You can survive any difficulties, frustrations and shocks if you form the right attitude towards them. This is the secret of happiness - no matter what happens around you, no matter the people who surround you, you must be in a state of harmony._ > *@AnkundaOmunyankore™*

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6/16/2025, 5:40:04 PM

WHAT HURTS A MAN 1. It hurts a man when his wife speaks to other people with more respect and warmth than she does with him 2. It hurts a man when his wife treats him well only when there are visitors 3. It hurts a man when his wife makes him feel less important to the children just because he doesn't have a womb 4. It hurts a man when he is always the one to say sorry even for the things he is not wrong for just because she is emotionally delicate 5. It hurts a man when the wife airs their dirty linen in public, telling her family and friends his flaws and tainting his image 6. It hurts a man when the wife is ever moody, unapproachable, cold and combative, making him feel uncomfortable to come home early 7. It hurts a man when he watches his wife smiling and blushing when she reads text messages from other men over the phone but brushes him off and assumes his presence 8. It hurts a man when the wife is distant, spiteful, not responsive to his touch, mad and not telling him what she is mad for 9. It hurts a man when the wife keeps getting confusing advice from her friends, outsiders and third parties are wrecking what belongs to two 10. It hurts a man when the wife sees nothing else but his negatives. She rarely appreciates his good 11. It hurts a man when the wife does not move past a resolved issue. She is stuck in matters that they agreed to progress from 12. It hurts a man when the wife speaks to him with a tone as if to boss him, order him around or belittle him 13. It hurts a man when the wife doesn't honour him or his effort just because he doesn't earn that much 14. It hurts a man when the wife uses him to get a comfortable life but then she turns to another man for emotional and sexual comfort

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6/16/2025, 2:48:50 PM

*The longer the relationship, the more pain the break up. So, if you see your relationship there is no future, it's better ; you break up now.* *Because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage* > AnkundaOmunyankore counsellor love square

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6/16/2025, 9:41:32 AM

A lot of women have never truly experienced what it feels like to be with a man who genuinely has his life together. And I’m not just talking about having a job or paying his own bills....that’s the bare minimum. I’m talking about a man who has *structure*, *vision*, *discipline*, and emotional *maturity*. A man who is stable in every sense of the word...mentally, emotionally, financially, spiritually. A man who doesn’t just want to “be with” a woman, but one who’s actively building a life and knows exactly where she fits into it. The truth is... so many women have carried the weight for so long, they don’t even realize they’re tired. They’ve been providers. They’ve had their own apartments. Their own cars. They’ve managed bills, raised kids, and still showed up in relationships with more patience, consistency, and love than they were ever given. Some of them have *never* known what it feels like to move into a home a man prepared for them... or to drive his car because he wanted to make *her* morning easier. They’ve never had the luxury of simply being taken care of, without it being used as leverage or thrown in their face later. Too many women are used to being the adult in relationships with men who only know how to drain them. She’s the one keeping the house together, managing the schedules, calming the storms, handling the responsibilities. And let’s be honest...a lot of men can’t even be bothered to take out the trash without being asked three times. Let alone protect, provide, and *lead*. So when a woman says she’s independent, strong, or doesn’t “need” a man, it’s not always out of pride....it’s out of *survival*. It’s because she’s learned that depending on the wrong man can cost her peace, progress, and years of her life she can’t get back. She’s learned to be self-sufficient because the men she’s encountered have been more interested in *using* her than building with her. They want access to her body, her energy, her loyalty... but they come with nothing but excuses and expectations in return. And yet, behind all that independence, so many women are craving safety. They’re craving rest. Not because they’re lazy....but because they’re *exhausted*. They want to experience what it feels like to *trust* someone else to lead for once. To know that if they fall apart, someone will catch them. That they don’t always have to be the strong one, the planner, the provider, the fixer. They want to experience love that doesn’t ask them to shrink, but invites them to *exhale.* So if you’re one of those women....know this: You’re not wrong for wanting more. You’re not “too much” for desiring a partner who has himself together. You’ve just been carrying too many people who never deserved your strength to begin with. There *are* men who will take care of you without conditions. Who will treat you as precious instead of replaceable. Who will protect your peace instead of disturb it. And when you find one... you’ll finally understand that being soft doesn’t make you weak. It just means you’re *safe. > AnkundaOmunyankore counsellor love square

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6/16/2025, 4:51:08 AM

*Happy fathers' Week to every man here.* #LoveSquare _Fatherhood is beautiful. It's attractive. It's describes the authenticity of a father. Fathers generate parental care and shelter for the children. They ensure their children are well trained in a godly way._ _Unfortunately, some men have changed the narrative. They have become hit and run fathers. They appear like a boiling point to impregnate and disappear again like vapour, leaving the woman to suffer all alone. They ignore the responsibilities and vanish like a scaring ghost. This is not fatherhood! Real fathers accept and perform the necessary tasks. They are bold to face every challenge in making sure their children are well brought up. Real fathers don't lay eggs and leave them unhatched. Real fathers are potential. They are benevolence, and they are very rare._ *May God's endless blessings be with all the responsible fathers👨.* _HAPPY FATHERS' Week!_ > AnkundaOmunyankore counsellor love square